Most of us have had a “this time I’m really going to walk every day” week. Monday is glorious. Tuesday is pretty good. By Thursday it’s chucking it down, work’s gone sideways, and by the weekend the plan has quietly slipped behind the sofa.
That’s not a character flaw. It’s just how habits work. Starting is exciting; keeping going is the bit that needs a bit of help. Here’s what tends to make a walking habit stick, and how to get back on track when it wobbles.
Make it small enough to be boring
The best habits are almost too easy. If your plan relies on a perfect hour of free time and blue skies, it’ll break the first time either goes missing.
Pick a goal that feels slightly under-ambitious. A walk round the block after lunch. Getting off the bus a stop early. You can always do more on a good day, but a small, doable goal gives you something you can keep hitting on a rubbish one.
That’s why Strideora lets everyone set their own private daily step goal. It’s yours, it’s set to fit your life, and nobody else sees the number. If it turns out too easy or too tough, you can change your target any time.
Hook it onto something you already do
The NHS’s walking for health page puts it simply: “The easiest way to walk more is to make walking a habit.” Its suggestions are wonderfully ordinary: walking part of the way to work, walking to the shops, taking the stairs, walking the kids to school, a stroll with family or friends after dinner.
The trick is attaching your walk to something that already happens every day. After the school run. Before you open the laptop. While the pasta’s cooking. When the walk has a reliable “trigger”, you spend less energy deciding whether to go.
Have a plan for bad-weather days
British weather is going to test your habit. Plan for it rather than hoping.
- Keep a “short version” of your walk ready for drizzly days.
- Find a covered route: a shopping centre, a station concourse, a long corridor at work.
- Leave a decent coat and a pair of comfy shoes by the door, so going out is a two-second decision.
- Accept that some days the short version is the win. It still counts.
Don’t let one missed day become a missed month
This is the big one. Missing a day isn’t the problem. Deciding that a missed day means you’ve “failed” is what kills habits.
Try a simple rule: never miss twice. Had a day where it just didn’t happen? Fine. Tomorrow you do the small version. No catching up, no punishing double walk, just back to normal.
It helps when the people around you see it the same way. In Strideora, the group score is the share of member-days where people hit their goals. One off day is one day, not a disaster, and tomorrow is a fresh chance to add to the team’s total.
Let other people carry you a little
Motivation comes and goes. Other people are often what fills the gap.
When you know a friend, a colleague or your sister is out walking today, it’s that bit easier to go too. And when you hit your goal, or keep a streak going a few days in a row, your group gets a notification and can cheer you on. That feels good in a way a lonely tick on a chart doesn’t.
That’s the heart of Strideora: small walking groups where everyone’s working towards their own goal, and the activity feed is full of cheers rather than comparisons. You walk your walk; your group’s got your back.
Keep it interesting
Habits stay alive when they don’t feel like a chore. A few ideas:
- Swap routes now and then. Try that footpath, that park on the other side of town, that riverside you never get to.
- Listen to a podcast or an audiobook you only allow yourself on walks.
- Give the month a theme. Strideora’s monthly league challenges do this for you, with a new peak to climb each month and a celebration at the end.
- Notice things. The house with the ridiculous gnome collection. The first conkers. The seasons changing on your usual loop.
Be kind to yourself
A walking habit isn’t a streak to protect at all costs. It’s something that should make your days a bit nicer. Some weeks you’ll smash it, some weeks you’ll potter. Both are part of the deal.
Walk it with your people
Strideora is coming soon to iPhone and Android. If you’d like a little team behind your walking habit, join the waitlist on our coming soon page and we’ll email you when it launches. Members join free, and organisers get their first month free.
See you on the trail, drizzle and all.